September 7, 2007

Will You Listen to Yourself?

Buon Giorno, Class. Yours truly is a bit bothered about something. I don't like the way people beat themselves up. (Now, some people do need a beating, but I know people that will take care of that.) I'm talking about "put-downs", "badmouthing", "talking smack" (do people really say that one?). I'm not saying that everyone is a freaking bit of sliced sunshine in the midst of darkness, but there's no reason to tear down what you do have.

One popular expression that I hear is, "Stupid me!" Dreadful. I'm all for admitting when you screwed up; I admit it before other people can point it out to me whenever possible. How about saying, "I messed up", or even, "Oops" instead?

There's a difference between the event and the person. "I am stupid" is much different than "I did something stupid". For one thing, you're making an excuse. You're saying, in a way, "Don't expect much of me because I can't understand things. Here comes the 'Tard Wagon, I have to go lick windows now." But when you say that you fouled something up, then fine, you admit to the event or situation. You're not limiting yourself, and you're not demeaning yourself in someone else's eyes.

But I believe that the greater problem is the human mind. It can be powerful when used properly. Treat it right. That includes what you say about yourself. It was pointed out to me that YOU are the first person that you will believe. Your subconscious is paying attention and recording things, and if you keep putting yourself down, guess what? You're going to live down to what you've conditioned yourself to believe. Do you follow this, Cupcake? If not, read it over a few times, it's important. I don't like it when good people hurt themselves, and that's what happens.

OK, short class today. Time for recess.

August 7, 2007

The Illegal Rant Continues

Buon giorno. I'm still worked up about the illegal immigration issue (Part 1 is here). E-mails like the ones my brother sent me get me going again. So, this session is a cheat. Not my own work, but it reflects my sentiments and also pulls together things I've read and heard in other places. But I did put some work into the links. Groovy, huh? Even groovier is that an upcoming Weblog will tie into the cheapness of labor issue.

Do me a favor, though, willya? I just added some links to document some of the claims (I won't do all your work for you, though. Some of it's simply common sense, and things you can see with your own eyes). When you check out some of the links, open them in a new browser window or tab. That way, it's easier to find your way back here and finish the article. And maybe read its companion piece. OK, as my buddy Duke Nukem says, "Let's rock!"


Isn't that what the whole immigration issue is about? Let's be honest.

  • * Business doesn't want to pay a decent wage

  • * Consumers don't want expensive produce

  • * Government will tell you Americans don't want the jobs

But the bottom line is cheap labor. The phrase "cheap labor" is a myth, a farce, and a lie ~ there is no such thing as "cheap labor."

Take, for example, an illegal alien with a wife and five children. He takes a job for $5.00 or $6.00/hour. At that wage, with six dependents, he pays no income tax, yet at the end of the year, if he files an Income Tax Return, he gets an "earned income credit" of up to $3,200, free.

  • * He qualifies for Section 8 housing and subsidized rent
  • * He qualifies for food stamps
  • * He qualifies for free (no deductible, no co-pay) health care
  • * His children get free breakfasts and lunches at school
  • * He requires bilingual teachers and books
  • * He qualifies for relief from high energy bills
  • * If they are or become aged, blind or disabled, they qualify for SSI. Once qualified for SSI they can qualify for Medicare.
All of this is at that taxpayer's expense. He doesn't worry about car insurance, life insurance, or homeowners insurance. Taxpayers provide Spanish language signs, bulletins and printed material. He and his family receive the equivalent of $20.00 to $30.00/hour in benefits.

Working Americans are lucky to have $5.00 or $6.00/hour left after paying their bills and his. The American taxpayers also pay for increased crime, graffiti and trash clean-up.

Bank of un-America is giving them credit cards. And guess who pays for defaulted credit debt? Yep, you and me. As soon as I get that thing paid off, I'm canceling it. What language is in your wallet?

Cheap labor? Yeah, right! Wake up, People!

Have A Nice Day, amigos.

July 24, 2007

Press One for English

Buona sera. How are things going? Good, I hope.

Enough of this happy banter. I'm irritated, and I want to tell the world. Today's topic is something that everyone seems to be writing and talking about, and I want to go on record as well. It's a very American subject, but I wonder how many other countries feel the way I do.

Said topic is illegal immigration. Yeah, I know, so what.

I'll tell you "so what". I'm really fed up with a number of issues here. One is the attitude of some bleeding-heart Americans that say, "The poor dears are fleeing an oppressive regime, we should give them sanctuary." That's a planter full of turd blossoms! Any idea how many people want to get into the USA in the first place? They have their reasons, too. What, we should just let anyone wander in that doesn't like his homeland? Get real.

"Gosh, Bob, why should you care, anyway?"
I'll tell you why. First, the borders are wide open and any terrorist can sneak in. Both the north and the south, but we don't have an infestation of Canadians trying to sneak in and create hundreds of Little Canadas in the US.

All borders should be controlled, but the southern one controlled more.

Hey, did you know that there are many Mexicans that think they are entitled to our land? They think we stole it from them. I don't care what they think. If it was in a war a long, long time ago, get over it. Or how about this: how about if you give your land back to the Aztecs, Mayans and other natives that Spain took land from? Or for that matter, trace the land ownership back even further, the natives of the Americas were having wars and taking land from each other for generations. How far back do you want to go to find the "true" owners of this hemisphere? Maybe the Inuits?

Draw the line, get over it, it's ancient history. Really.

But bad attitudes are here, brought by people that snuck into the country. Sounds a bit unsafe to me, having people hating and resenting us, sneaking in and living here.

And don't give me that nonsense about them "doing jobs that Americans won't do", either. Did you ever see the show "Dirty Jobs"? News flash: it's full of Americans, not illegals, doing stuff that I'm too posh to do myself, and most people are too soft or prissy to do, either. But they're legal people.

Another thing I'm fed up with is the belief that "they're participating in the economy". Yeah, sure they are. Big time. But it's the economy of Mexico that they participate in, not the American economy. They don't spend money in American any more than they have to. They send the bulk of the money back to relatives there. The Illegals in the US are a tremendous boost to the Mexican economy.

I don't want to hear any of that excrement about them wanting to be citizens, have jobs, etc. (
That's the kind of thing that my pet mindless sheep would say.) Sure, many do want to work and become Americans. But we're paying the bills for Illegals to be in our prisons and dealing with the crimes that they commit. Most don’t want to become citizens. And many make America into the “bad guy”. If we’re so terrible, why do you want to come here? And do what, make the US into another huge slum like Mexico?
If someone wants to come here and work, fine. As long as the do it legally. (I saw T-shirts for sale supporting illegal Irish immigrants. I don't want them here, either! Or anyone else that sneaks in.) Now please pay attention: I'm not anti-immigrant, or anti-Mexican. I want the borders controlled so we can get people here that want to contribute to our society. Capice?

But why should they respect our laws, when we don't do it ourselves? Freaking cheapskate employers that don't want to pay a good wage for a job will hire the wetbacks who think it's a raise because of the economy back home. (Hint: want better wages and living conditions? Do it the American way, vote or do something for political change. Power to the people and all that.)

The government doesn't do anything significant to prosecute or deport the illegals. I'm furious at both major political parties at this point, and senators (is it any wonder that the root word for "senate" is the same root word for "senile"?) and congressmen should be voted out. Watch the stronzos, hold them accountable.

Build walls to keep them out? Well, either that or kick up the border patrols several notches, enforce the existing laws (yes, I know I'm repeating myself). Walls are reputed to work in other countries, so maybe they'll work here.

What do we do with the millions of wetbacks that are here? First, let's stop the flood, OK? Then we'll tackle that other issue. This article is long enough as it is.

We don't have time to deal with how we pay their upkeep with medical bills, and how emergency rooms have had to close down because of all the Illegals they've had to treat and not get paid for.

Here's your apathy: crybabies want to let people into the country, but by doing so, they're hurting our own economy and social structure. They don't care. Politicians who refuse to do anything about the flood of Illegals get re-elected, that really makes sense. This apathy is killing us.

Did you learn anything, class? How about not to be a bleeding-heart crybaby liberal around me because I'll give you facts that you don't like? You’ll also see how truth can be considered hate speech; whiners (sheep) are gonna have a field day with this one. Good lessons, huh? Now excuse me, I'm on my way out to get an order of nachos.

I highly recommend this video. It's fun. Hope you have high-speed Internet, though. If you don't, it'll take a while to load. Click here.

July 1, 2007

Getting Organized for Mental Health

Edited 10-18-2009

Buona Sera.
Time to jump right in. The spacing in this article is annoying and I can't get it to do what I want, so we'll all have to deal with it.

Yours truly has to deal with depression. No, everybody gets the blues. I mean, as a diagnosed condition. (I went off the medication because I got fed up with it.) It's a struggle, and some days tend to be worse than others (obviously). Anyway, on those days, I have to go about my business on "autopilot". That's my term for doing things automatically, out of routine, just so I can function.

Have you ever seen that poster with a group of animals lounging around and the caption, "We gotta get organized"? That was my high school class motto. But it became more profound for me as time went on. Getting organized is not only a powerful stress buster, but an aid to relieving depression. And I'll take all of those that I can get.

One thing I have to say right now: This is for people that actually have the intelligence and integrity to do things for themselves. If you have to go crying to Mommy to do things for you, or someone else to hold your hand because you're incapable of living the basics of life, then fine, read and forget. But you won't have any sense of accomplishment because you did it yourself. Sorry, gang, laziness and selfishness are "buttons" of mine.

I put the alarm clock out of reach so I can't shut it off out of reflex, and have to get up. (It's a stress point to oversleep and be late for work or an appointment, yes?) Clothes are picked out and laid out the night before, the shower towel is hanging in its place and ready, breakfast is planned, meds and vitamins are in the day's container and handy — you get the idea.

OK, so I've shown you my basic plan for getting out and about. It centers on a basic routine that I can perform while still waking up.

"But what about things that change in the day, Uncle Bob?"

I'm glad you asked. We have things to do, people to see, tasks to accomplish, evidence to hide, birthday cards to send, whatever. Things feel like they're piling up and get overwhelming, and I have to resist the temptation to play games on the computer and let it all slide. Well, not so much now since I attained some degree of organization in my life. Wish I’d known this stuff years ago!

Let me interrupt myself a moment and say that I got a surprising bit of help out of the book How to Live the James Bond Lifestyle. I got it as a novelty item, and it turns out that it's a powerful self-help book. I took things from there, mixed it with my own so Paul Kyriazi won't recognize his own work. Hey, Paul! Want a cut of the profits from this post? If I ever get one red cent, I'll let you know.

First of all, you need some kind of work station to call your own. Even if it's a section of a desk (an entire desk, even a small one, would be better). Keep it clear from useless clutter and dedicate it to your goals, long and short term. It's your work station.

As for organizing details, you absolutely need a calendar. A portable one is important to have with you so you can make appointments "on the road" as well as one at your workstation. Every day, you need to make sure that they "agree" (my PDA "synchronizes" its own with the one on the computer). There is a portable option for Mozilla Sunbird so you can put it on your flash drive and take it with you if you want. Another computer calendar option is Google Calendar, so you can see it whenever you have Web access. If you're really into it, you can set up Sunbird to work with Google Calendar and other applications. I haven't bothered, though.

Your list of "tasks" gets the same treatment.

There are two approaches to handling information and details: Written and digital. Actually, a combination of the two is best. Some people use a paper and folio organizer system. These can get expensive, but have categories for everything. But they're bulky. And available to prying eyes if you set one down.

You see, I'm a strong proponent of the PDA, Personal Digital Assistant. No, not the twenty dollar one at Walley World, either. Those start out nicely, but break quickly. And I don't recommend spending five hundred on a super-high-tech system that "does it all". Mine is two hundred dollars, and that's a big expense for me (they go for less, but I wanted the color screen and music player). It has reminders (and alarms), address books (that can hold thousands of entries), calculators, the all-important calendar and more. It gets the information backed up on a bigger computer and/or a "card" that fits in a slot. It's got size going for it, easy to carry. Plus, security in case you lose it or set it down. Very convenient if you use it synchronized to a computer. Edit: It's getting worn out, and I'm going more toward the calendar sync system, it's available online, at work, at home.

Both paper and digital organizers have similar systems, so you do what's best for yourself. Even if it's a stack of junior sized legal pads. But the most important point, whatever system you use, is to get a system and be consistent. In one way or another, write it down. Whatever "it" is. So, make sure you have pens and pencils in a container at your workstation, even if you store them in a coffee cup. Moving up to an actual office-type pencil container feels kind of classy, so when you have a couple of dollars to spare, you may want to do that.

Special note: Write stuff down, again. Even if it is some kind of thought that is buzzing in your head like a trapped gnat. Little thoughts of things you want to do later, or look up, anything that distracts you and takes away your mental energy should be written down so it can be dealt with later. Then you can transfer it onto your "tasks" or "to do" list later on. That is,
anything that gets scratched out on a piece of paper, in a pocket notebook or on a napkin needs to be examined, put on the calendar(s) and lists. When it's safely recorded, discard the scrap so you don't wonder about it later and waste time finding out that yes, I did write it down after all.

Do you have all of your addresses and numbers for contacts in one place, or do you have to search for each number? Get them together and save the time and aggravation of doing a search. Sure, have divisions and categories for poker buddies, church guilds, business acquaintances, people that owe you money, whatever. But there's no good reason to have one list in the kitchen, another in the living room, still another under the bed, etc. Keep them together in a divider on your desk ("work station") or in your desk drawer. (If you have a sooper-sekrit list of your lovers, f'rinstance, you're on your own to hide it and keep track of it. But the PDA does have categories and privacy settings.)

One note about tasks: Have due dates. How often do things get done that don't have a due date? Not very often. Sure, some things have to be a bit vague (I'm working on a long-term project that gets done a little at a time, such as this article), but it's better to have some kind of accountability to yourself for the bulk of it.

"So what's the big deal? Why all the details?"

The details are what drag many of us down. I've had a sense of pride and accomplishment checking tasks off, or making correct appointments that I don't have to reschedule later because I forgot about a conflict, or forgot to go in the first place. No more panic about getting a payment in on time, either. It eases the mind.

For that matter, check out a "Bill Payer" system at your bank or Credit Union. That makes for a few less recurring checks to write, and you're more certain of getting things on time. Just check it each time a bill comes in, because those people get sneaky and change the due dates. Tricky weasels want those extra grotzits that they tack on if you're late... and I cut down on the stress by getting it right ahead of time. See how this organization stuff can work?

When you're organized, you don't waste time and energy getting frazzled and trying to get things together. Your new habit is checking the "books" for what's due for today or this week, and then going for it.This very article was on my "to-do" list for today. It was a busy weekend, but productive and things got done. They're off my mind.

You know, it's like something a stand-up comic said about spending money on off-brands: If I spend less on some stuff, I have more money to buy other stuff. Hey, if I spend less time getting prepared to do things, I have more time to actually do the things. And if I have less depression or aggravation over all, isn't that best of all?

Let's get organized. Hope this did you some good, class.

Added 12-23-2007: Very useful link here.

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